While it is hard for many girls to understand, it has come to my attention after 2 years of marriage and 13 months of dating before that, that "romancing" a woman is difficult for many guys. I know. That's hard for me to understand, too. I'm overflowing with "cute little ways to say 'I love you'" and date night ideas. Let's just say, I didn't marry my husband for how thoughtfully romantic he was. Asking my husband to plan a date night is like pulling teeth. Usually it ends with me planning most of the date and then pouting inside because he "didn't put any effort into it." I know that he loves me, I don't have the slightest doubt that he does, but sometimes I wish he would romance me a bit, SHOW me he loves me outside of the bedroom.
It might work to turn on a guy by an "I want you" kind of sentence in passing, but not this girl. I have to warm up in most instances. This has been a constant challenge for us because he can't quite wrap his guy mind around this fact, and I can't "make it happen" on demand. It caused some very frustrating nights when we first got married. And that is why I wanted to create this blog. I have so many ideas in my head that I wish I could sneak into my husband's head, but as all women know, if you have to tell them, it doesn't mean anything. haha So I decided to create this blog as an outlet of putting down some of my "romance her" ideas. I'm hoping to help amazing guys like my hubby who just aren't super gifted in the thoughtful, planning department. I hope these SIMPLE ideas will help you romance your girl and help put into action the love you have for her.
And the best part is, I'll let you take all the credit! When she's amazed by your thoughtful gesture or perfect date night idea, just smile big and hold her close~you did it! I submit to you that romance can be simple if you are willing to follow some of these easy ideas. And believe me, she will be amazed by this loving gesture!
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